Families are different. The point of having a family is to take care of one another and encourage one another in their pursuits. 

The adults of the family should strive to provide the child a safe and encouraging environment to grow in. 

Sometimes, you may feel that the adults of your family do not understand you. However, you should keep in mind that they have much more experience and knowledge about life than you do.

Their job is to give you a safe environment that provides you with the opportinity to develop at your own pace. The rules set by your parents are there to protect you.