Toimittaja(t): Anni ja Johanna

Hello! Can somebody help me? I have a very big problem. I have a "friend", who was very nice to me when we met, about five years ago. Now she's different. She wakes up in the morning and drinks a cup of hot coffee. Then she goes to school, saying nothing to her parents. She comes to school and she doesn't want to talk with me. I say something and she's just looking something on the floor or then she writes something. She's not my friend anymore. She didn't say anything, when I was asking about our frienship. She's totally different now... What I can do? Her parents have asked if I can do something for her, but I can't. She doesn't want to talk with me, and I can't help her. I don't know what to do... Do you? * * * * Hey, you have a problem, I see. But maybe it's really not your problem. Maybe you should listen to your friend more and try to understand her. Maybe she wants to ask for your help. Or then, maybe, she just needs more time to be alone. You shouldn't be with her all the time, if she doesn't want to. Don't panic, maybe your problem it's not so serious as you think, trying to understand your friend and give her the time she needs.

Hey! I have problems with my mother. I don't understand her at all, she doesn't let me do anything that she doesn't want me to do. I don't know what she's thinking, but I think she's crazy. My mother is always busy and when she comes home, she's too tired to listen to me. This is very difficult, because I don't have anybody else in my life, who can listen to my problems. Help me, please! * * * * Hello! You should listen to your mum, maybe you haven't seen that she has problems, too. I'm always saying this, but I say it again: Try to understand her and give her some time. Be patient, and good luck with your mother!